Intimacy in Arranged Marriage

In Zulu Ngingakholwa ukuthi ukweseka kwabalingani abashade kungemizwa yisithunzi sokuthanda. Ngemva kokuthola umyeni wami ngathi ngiyachitha, kodwa ngafunda ukuthi lento iyalingana nayo.

Kwaqala ngithanda ukudla kwethu, ngikuthande wena, ngikuthanda izwe lethu, ngikuthanda ukuthula.

English Version i was so nervous on my wedding day, not knowing what to expect from my new husband. we were introduced through our families, a traditional nibha nibhi setup.

lol, it sounds so old fashioned now but i guess that's just how it is sometimes.

we started with small conversations, about our daily routines and interests. slowly but surely, we found common ground and our connection grew.

one thing that helped us was making time for each other, just the two of us. we'd go for walks, have dinner together, and talk about our dreams and aspirations.

it wasn't always easy, there were times when we disagreed and had to work through our issues. but we persevered, and our love and desire for each other kept growing.

i think what worked for us was being open and honest with each other, no matter how difficult the conversation.

and then one day, i just realized...