Always me giving in, he says I'm his love?
We’ve been married 6 years now, and every time there’s a fight or even just a small decision – like where to eat or whose family to visit on holidays – I end up bending. Always me. He says sweet things, like 'you’re the love of my life' and 'I can’t live without you'… yes po, he says it with tears sometimes. But then nothing changes. Last month, my mom was sick and I wanted to go home for a few days. He got so quiet, said he’d be lonely, so I stayed. His mom asked him to move in with them, and I agreed kasi I don’t mind, but he won’t stand up to her. So I end up cooking, cleaning, saying yes to everything just to keep peace. I’m tired. I love him talaga, but why does it feel like only my compromises matter? When I tried talking, he said I’m overthinking. I don’t want to be the only one trying. Is this normal? Feels one-sided naman eh. 🤦♀️