Anxious after breakup
So I've been dating this guy for like 3 months and we had a pretty deep connection I thought, he was my first real relationship after a string of bad dates and I felt like I could finally be myself around him. We had our first date at this cute coffee shop and I remember feeling so happy and at ease, like I was home or something. But then out of nowhere he broke up with me saying I was getting too clingy, that I needed to give him space... like what even is that? I'm just really struggling to cope with the loneliness now and I feel so attached to him still, I miss him so much it physically hurts. love-language is a thing for me, I need to feel loved and appreciated or I feel lost. First dates are scary but this was different, we had a real connection... now I'm just left with this emptiness and anxiety, how do I get over this?