He promised to marry me after we got physical… now he's ghosting?
We’ve been together 1.5 years, met through a family friend during my visit to Kerala. Things moved fast emotionally — he said all the right things, kept talking about our future, how we’d get married by next year. Actually, he was the one pushing for commitment, kept saying, 'Once we cross this step, I’ll announce it officially.' So I trusted him. We got intimate — not lightly, it meant something to me, very very much. After that, everything changed. He stopped calling. Replies take days. When I ask what’s wrong, he says 'nothing, busy with work' but avoids video calls, won’t confirm plans. Last time we spoke, he just said 'Let’s not rush into things' — isn’t it the opposite of what he said before? My family doesn’t know much, but they’re already asking, 'So when is the engagement?' I feel stuck. Like I gave something precious and got nothing in return. Is this normal? What do I even do now… 💔
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