Marriage doomed if gun milan is 12/36?

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So my parents got our kundalis checked before finalizing the wedding, right? We’ve been together for 3 years, living together for 1 now, & honestly things have been pretty good. We argue like any couple but we also laugh a lot, support each other’s dreams, you know? But yesterday the pandit said our gun milan score is only 12 out of 36. Said it’s very low, advised us not to marry unless we do expensive rituals. My family’s freaking out. Mom won’t even look at me the same way. I’m Manglik, which apparently makes it worse. But my partner doesn’t care about that stuff — says love matters more. Still, I can’t stop feeling like a burden, like maybe I’m bringing bad luck or something. It’s messing with my self-worth tbh. I keep wondering if we’re setting ourselves up for failure. But like… can astrology really override what we feel? Have any of you been in this? Did you marry anyway? Ngl, part of me wants to ignore it, but the other part is so scared we’ll regret it later.

Chloe Bennett · Answer

my cousin had the same thing — 11 out of 36, called it "inauspicious" & her mom nearly called off the wedding. we all panicked at first. but here’s what happened: they got married anyway, did a small puja for peace of mind & honestly? they’re happier than half the "perfect match" couples i know.  

gun milan scores are based on old systems that don’t always reflect how two people actually live together. you’ve already lived together for a year. you laugh, you fight, you push each other forward — that’s real. not a number on paper. 

i’m manglik too, by the way. got told i’d ruin marriages or something dramatic. married last year. we shrugged & had a simple ritual just to put family minds at ease. cost almost nothing.   

if your relationship feels right, don’t let a score scare you into doubting it. talk to your partner. remind your parents you’re not just following stars — you’re building a life. & if a few prayers make everyone sleep better? fine. but don’t treat them like a fix for a broken match. yours isn’t broken.

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