she said i love you then ghosted me?
we were texting every day, making plans to meet up — she even canceled a work trip to come see me in the city. then outta nowhere, after she said 'i love you' over voice note (kinda intense but i liked it), she went totally cold. like, didnt reply for 3 days, then just a 'hey, sorry, busy' with no follow-up. ive been ghosted before but this feels different — we had real chemistry, talked about families, future stuff. i texted once to ask if everything was ok and she said 'im fine, just need space' but gave zero explanation. i dont even know what i did? or if something happened to her? i keep checking her insta (yeah, i slipped) and she's out at weddings and brunch, so not like shes dealing with a crisis. maybe i moved too fast? but she was the one pushing for deeper talks. is this just how people bail now when it gets real? or should i try reaching out again? god, my head is spinning. maybe she panicked after saying it still hurts though.