Should I confront him about his secret account?
so i found out my boyfriend has a private instagram i never knew about. we’ve been together 3 years and i stumbled on it cause a mutual friend liked a story. i didn’t even know he still used instagram at all he always said it was a waste of time. anyway i checked it out (yeah i know kinda sketchy but i couldn’t help it) and it’s all just memes and dumb videos but he’s got like 40 close friends on there including some people i’ve never heard him mention. one girl in particular he comments on a lot like super flirty not outright but enough to make me pause. he’s 38 going through a divorce right now it’s been messy and i’ve been trying to be patient. i don’t want to seem paranoid but why hide an account for years and not tell me it exists. i keep thinking maybe he’s using it to talk to his ex or line up something on the side. i don’t know if i should bring it up and risk sounding obsessive or just let it go. part of me thinks if he’s hiding this what else is he hiding. forgot to mention he blocked me from seeing it after the friend’s like so he knows i found it. now i’m really confused. what would you do
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