Was it worth leaving love for excitement?
i was with my ex for 3 years. he treated me like real couple. cooked for me, called my mom every week, always calm and kind. everyone said he was the one. then i met someone else — more intense, makes me feel like i’m on fire when we talk. broke up with first guy, even though i cried for 2 days after. now i’m with this new person, and it’s… fun. but also exhausting. he disappears sometimes, says i’m too serious. i keep thinking about how the old one would never make me feel small. i cannot say directly but… maybe i miss safety more than i thought. my family keeps asking why i left such a good man, and i don’t know how to answer without making them worry. he very no good for me if what i need is peace. but i still check his Instagram. is it normal to feel this regret when you choose passion over comfort? 💔