Why hasn’t he told his family we’re married?
we got married 6 months ago in a small courthouse thing — just us and our dog, which was perfect for us. we met online and everything moved fast but it felt right. but here’s the thing… he still hasn’t told his parents we’re married. not a word. i brought it up once and he said they’re “hard to reach” but i know that’s not true — his sister posted about dinner with them last week. i’m trans, and i wonder if that’s why he’s hiding it. he said his family’s kinda conservative. but we talked about this before getting married and he swore he didn’t care, that he loved me. now i’m starting to feel like maybe i was a secret he didn’t know he was keeping. he gets quiet every time i mention it, changes the subject… or just says “we’ll do it soon.” but soon keeps not happening. i love him. but i don’t want to be some hidden part of his life. am i wrong for wanting his family to know i exist? — or am i just being insecure? …idk. maybe i’m overthinking. but it hurts.