Every time we fight, they say they're done
we’ve been together 3 years, and every single argument ends with "i can’t do this anymore" or "i’m leaving". last week we were fighting about me working late (again), and she just said, "that’s it, i’m out" and stayed at her sister’s. came back next day like nothing happened. when i brought it up, she said i take her threats too seriously. but it’s not just talk — she actually leaves. missed our anniversary dinner last year cause she “needed space” after a dumb text mix-up. makes me feel like i’m walking on eggshells all the time. my mama always said love shouldn’t make you feel scared, but what if she really does leave? then what? idk, part of me wonders if it’s me — like, am i not showing up right? but another part feels played. she’s got family watching, you know? we’re supposed to be building something. but how you build with someone who keeps one foot out the door? 🤦
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