Real relationship?
I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now and I'm starting to wonder if what we have is a real relationship or just two people who are afraid to be alone we've been talking about moving in together but every time it comes up I get this feeling of dread like I'm making a huge mistake my parents are always on my case about settling down and having kids but honestly I don't even know if I'm ready for that I was married before and it ended in divorce when I was 28 so the thought of going through all that again is just terrifying I feel like we're just going through the motions sometimes and I don't know how to bring it up with him without hurting his feelings