She said she loves me but not ready?

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So this girl I’ve been seeing for months, we talk every day, even stays over sometimes. Last week she told me she loves me ha, and I was so happy. But then she says right after, "I’m not ready for a relationship." Ano ba ‘yon? If you love someone, don’t you want to be with them? Super confused kasi. We’re always together, she meets my friends, even jokes about marrying me, but when I ask what we are, she pulls back. Says she needs space and time. But then gets mad if I talk to other girls. I’m not pushing for a label or anything, pero… di ba unfair? She says she’s healing from past stuff, but I’m starting to feel like I’m just… there when she needs someone. I don’t want to hurt her, but I’m getting hurt too. What does “I love you but not ready” even mean? Is that real or just a nice way to keep me around? I just need to know if I’m wasting my time ha.

Aaliyah Jackson · Answer

so i've been in a similair situation before and honestly it was really confusing for me too. she says she loves you but isn't ready for a relationship, that's kinda mixed signals lol. what i did was have a calm talk with my girl and asked her what she meant by not being ready. turns out she had some personal issues to sort out before committing. maybe you should try talking to her like that, see what's going on in her head. and yeah, it's weird that she gets mad when you talk to other girls but doesn't want to be in a relationship... idk, maybe she's just not sure what she wants. you deserve someone who's definately sure about you tho

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