Can a Leo and Virgo really fix this?

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I messed up once — just once — but I told her. My wife’s in London studying and I was so alone here in Abu Dhabi the distance got to me and I kissed someone at a friend’s gathering. I told her the next day because I couldn’t live with it. She cried for hours yani and I swear I’m dying inside every time she looks at me through the screen like she’s seeing a stranger. We’re trying but it’s like walking on broken glass. She’s Virgo obsessive about details I’m Leo I want to lead fix things grand but she just pulls back. My mom keeps asking when they’ll visit and I can’t even look her in the eye knowing what I did. Is there any real chance for us or are we just fooling ourselves? I check our kundli match sometimes hoping for a sign but I don’t know if stars can heal this kind of wound I just miss my wife and I don’t know how to get her back even though she’s technically still mine

Hafiz Abdullah · Answer

My husband did something similar — not the same but close enough that I get the crater-sized hole it leaves. Took us months to crawl back. Here’s what actually helped: stop trying to fix it grand like a Leo on a mission. She dont need grand gestures right now she needs proof. Consistency. Show up same time every day no excuses. Text her little things — “saw this flower and thought of your garden sketch” — dumb stuff. Tiny. Real. Virgos heal through detail not drama. And stop expecting her to soften cause you confessed fast — that was brave but it’s not a free pass. We hold patterns not just facts. I used to scroll my husband’s phone like a detective — not because I wanted to catch him but because I needed to relearn trust. Let her see your phone. Open your laptop. Not because you have to but because you want her to feel safe. Last thing — get your own therapist in Abu Dhabi. Do the work so you dont dump it all on her. It helps. We’re still here — messy but together.

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