Love him but our futures don’t match
we’ve been together 3 years & i still get butterflies when he walks in the room. he’s kind, prays with me, always remembers my mom’s birthday. but last night we had it out again about kids. i want a big family, 3 or 4 babies running around like i grew up with. he wants zero. says he’d rather travel, focus on his business, doesn’t want to be tied down. i told him i can’t imagine life without little ones & he just said “then maybe we’re not meant to last.” i don’t want to let go but how do you compromise on something that changes everything. my tia keeps saying “if he’s not giving you what you need, then he’s not it” but my heart aches at the thought of walking away. we’re both Taurus too, supposed to be so compatible but right now it feels like we’re just stuck. same argument every few months. i don’t think either of us will change & that scares me