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How do I fix things when my kundli was wrong?

I am having no idea what to do. Last year my parents fixed my match with a girl from our town — everything looked good, horoscope matched, everyone happy. But I never liked her much, I told my mom only that I am not feeling the connection, but she said I am overthinking, that love grows after marriage only. I said yes because saying no would have broken my parents' hearts, and people would have said things. After marriage, she is always doing this — staying quiet, not talking, crying in the room. I asked what's wrong, she says I married her without feelings, that I am cold. But how was I to say no? My brother’s divorce already damaged our family's respect. Now she wants to go back to her parents, and I am stuck. I checked our kundli again — some pandit said there's Nibha Nibhi dosha he missed earlier. Is it the stars or me? I don’t even know if we can fix this. I just wanted to do the right thing, but everything is wrong only.

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I remember my cousin going through something similar — total pressure to say yes even when his gut was screaming no.

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Duc Nguyen
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9 days ago
I remember my cousin going through something similar — total pressure to say yes even when his gut was screaming no. Horoscope matched, family happy, but the moment they got married, it was like walking on eggshells. She barely spoke, just cried in their room like yours. He felt trapped, same as you. Look, astrology might line up, but feelings dont lie. You already knew something was off — trust that. Ignoring your instinct only makes the pain last longer. Start small. Talk to her. Not the "how was your day" kind, but real talk. Sit with her, ask what she’s feeling... or not feeling. Maybe she’s scared too. Maybe she’s stuck like you. But also, talk to your mom. Calmly. Tell her this isnt working & you both deserve more than just a quiet house. I know it’s scary to go against family, but long-term misery is worse. We all want connection. You both deserve that — not just a matched kundli.

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