Can astrology explain lost attraction?

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Okay so me and my husband have been together 12 years, married for 8, and I swear I still love him like crazy—we talk about everything, finish each other’s sentences, he held my hand through my mom’s funeral last year, like that deep kind of love you can’t fake. But lately? I just don’t feel turned on by him anymore. Like zero spark. And it’s weird because it didn’t just fade, it vanished. Last time I felt anything was around the time Venus went retrograde in May? I know that sounds silly but I’ve been into astrology lately and my friend said my chart’s been getting hit by some Saturn square or something. So I started wondering—could this be written in the stars? Like is this a compatibility phase or something karmic? We’re both Pisces, which everyone says is dreamy and romantic but honestly lately it feels like we’re just roommates who share a Netflix password. He hasn’t brought up sex in months and I don’t know if he’s noticed or just pretending not to. Also his mom moved in last winter (long story with her health) and that added stress, not saying that’s the cause but like things shifted after that. Anybody else go through this? Was it the stars? Did it come back?

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look i lived this exact thing two years ago. my husband and i were the couple that never stopped laughing, you know? then overnight it felt like someone flipped a switch. i started checking astrology too — mercury retrograde, full moons, the whole thing. honestly it made me feel less guilty, like there was a reason. but here’s what actually helped: we stopped waiting for the spark and just started doing small things that felt fun. no pressure, no ‘we need to reconnect’ talks. we made a playlist of dumb songs from high school and danced in the kitchen. later i realized it wasn’t that i stopped desiring him — i’d just stopped seeing him. like really seeing him. so i started noticing little things again. the way he sips coffee. how he hums when he’s fixing stuff. it’s not magic. but after a few weeks, something shifted. the attraction didn’t ‘return’ — it rebuilt. and about six months in i realized i’d been flirting with him without even trying. worth a shot

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