Family won’t stop asking for baby, marriage is suffering
We’ve been married 2.5 years now and every single visit it’s the same thing — mummy asks when we are having kids, even in front of guests. My husband is getting annoyed. He is saying why can’t they just wait, but I know they mean well only. Last week during Diwali, my nani came and started crying, saying she might not see a grandchild before she goes. It put so much pressure on both of us. We tried last year but it didn’t happen, so we paused for some time. Now he is feeling like I’m choosing them over him, but that’s not true. He is not understanding my point only. We fought last night because my brother’s wife is pregnant and everyone is celebrating like it’s their own win. He said maybe we should check our kundli if there’s some dosh or something. I don’t want to fight over astrology, but I also can’t ignore family completely, isn’t it? How do I make him feel supported without hurting my parents’ feelings?