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I've been talking to this girl for a few weeks now, and on paper she's perfect. We met on a dating app, and I was really excited to meet someone from the community. But the more we talk, the more I feel like somethings missing. Dont get me wrong, she's smart, funny, and beautiful... but when we're together it feels kinda... empty. I cant explain it. We dont really have any deep conversations, its all just surface level stuff. Well, at least its not as bad as what my family's going through back in Ukraine, but still. I feel guilty even thinking about this when my brother's still stuck in our city, but I need some advice. Am I just being paranoid or is this a red flag?

Darius Khan · Answer

I've been in your shoes before, and honestly it sucks when someone looks great on paper but theres just no spark. For me, it was a girl I met in college, we had alot in common but our convos always felt forced. What helped me was trying to steer the conversation towards more meaningful topics, like our passions or childhood memories. Dont be afraid to ask her some tougher questions, you might be suprised at how much deeper you can connect. Also, pay attention to how you feel when youre not together, do you find yourself thinking about her or is she just not on your mind? thats usually a good indicator for me

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