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I've been with my fiancé for a while now, we got physical and he promised to marry me after that. But now, he's completely ignoring me. I tried calling him, texting, everything. My family is already giving me a hard time because he doesn't earn as much as they'd like, and now this. Wallah I don't know what to do. I feel like I've given him my trust and my heart, and he's just throwing it away. I thought he loved me, habibti was all I used to call him. I'm starting to feel like I was just a mistake to him. I need advice, please help me.

Renee Adams · Answer

Okay, first — I’ve been there. Two years ago, I had a guy ghost right after we moved in together. Thought we were solid, turns out he was just avoiding the conversation he didn’t want to have. What I learned? When someone pulls back suddenly, especially after big promises, it’s not confusion — it’s cowardice. You deserve clarity, not radio silence.

Do this: send one last text. Short. 'I need to know where we stand. If you’re not in, I need to move on.' Send it & put your phone down. Then, stop checking. I know it hurts, but looping over messages kills your peace.

Also — your fam stressing about money? That’s on them. But their doubts don’t make this hurt any less valid. Trust your gut. If he wanted to show up, he would. Not tomorrow, not 'when he figures things out' — now.

You didn’t give your heart to a mista. You gave it to someone who couldn’t handle it. That’s on him, not you. Cut the tie clean & get some space to breathe. You’ll sleep better once you do.

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