Is it love or control when he checks my phone daily?
So my boyfriend of 8 months has this thing where he checks my phone every single day like he’ll grab it while I’m brushing my teeth or unlocking it when it’s face up on the table he says it’s because he loves me and cares about me but it’s starting to feel off honestly at first i thought it was sweet kinda cute even but now it’s constant he’ll ask why i liked someone’s photo or who texted me with just a heart emoji and he gets weirdly quiet if i don’t hand it over fast enough — last week i changed my passcode just to test it and he noticed immediately like within hours and that blew up into this whole thing where he said i was hiding stuff and didn’t trust him which isn’t true at all i just wanted one thing that was mine you know and we had sex that night right after arguing which felt like a reward for giving in and now i’m confused am i overreacting or is this actually messed up i love him but i feel like i’m living in a fishbowl and i can’t even breathe without him watching
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