She says she loves me but not ready for a relationship?
so we been talkin for months kinda flirty then one night she text me 'i love you' outta nowhere and my heart jumped i wont lie i said it back we talked every day sometimes late into the night about everything our jobs our fams what we want one day then last week i asked if we could be official like really try this she said she loves me but she’s not ready for a relationship and i just… freeze i didn’t know what to say … how can you love someone and not want to be with them that don’t make sense to me my mama always said actions talk louder than words but this feel backwards she ain’t seein nobody else as far as i know and she ain’t ask for space or nothin just keeps textin same as before like nothin changed i told my cousin and he said maybe she scared maybe it’s family stuff or church stuff she grew up Pentecostal so i get that but still after saying 'i love you' you don’t just leave that hangin right im startin to wonder if i’m readin her wrong or if she playin me