Should I leave if he gives all his money to his parents?
So we’ve been married 3 years and things were okay at first but now I’m just exhausted. My husband makes decent money, like solid middle class, but he sends every paycheck straight to his parents. Like, all of it. I asked him last month for even $200 toward groceries and he said they needed a new roof. His parents dont even live with us — they have their own house, and honestly, they’re not poor. I’m stuck using my tiny salary to pay for everything — rent, bills, toilet paper, you name it. Last week I had to borrow from my sister just to fill the car with gas. I brought it up and he got so quiet, then said "family comes first." Like yeah, but what about us? I feel like Im married to a ghost. We never go out, I cant buy new clothes, I had to cancel my therapy sessions cause there was no money. And when I try to talk about it he shuts down or says Im being selfish. I dont want to be the bad guy but Im so tired of feeling broke and alone. Is this normal? Should I just accept this or am I allowed to want a life too? #GenderIdentity #update