We're in love but our zodiacs hate each other?

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so me and my girlfriend met on that rainbow dating app and we clicked instantly. she’s a scorpio im a taurus and honestly everything just made sense at first. we text all night cook together watch the same dumb shows. but then i looked up our synastry because a friend mentioned it and apparently we are like the worst match astrology wise??? like power struggle this that control issues. and now im paranoid. like yeah sometimes we argue about silly stuff and she needs her space when shes in her feels but isnt that normal. i dont know why this is stuck in my head but every time she goes quiet for a day i think oh here it is the scorpio downfall. we’ve talked about real stuff money exes trauma and we handle it fine. so why do i keep questioning us cause of some stupid star chart. like last week we had that big fight over whose turn it was to take out the trash and i almost brought up astrology lol. im cringing just typing that. but part of me wonders am i ignoring red flags just cause i love her. or is this just me being weird about horoscopes again. help.

Leila Benali · Answer

my ex was a scorpio and i’m a taurus too — apparently we’re ‘toxic’ or whatever the app said back then lol. we fought like cats and dogs sometimes, yeah. she’d shut down, i’d push, it sucked. but here’s the thing: we actually talked about it. not the astrology stuff — that was fun to scroll through but honestly? didn’t mean squat. what mattered was when i learned to back off if she needed space instead of taking it personal. and she started telling me straight up if i was being stubborn (which i was. i admit it). you’re already doing the good stuff — cooking together, laughing at the same dumb shows, texting all night. that’s real. the synastry charts don’t pay rent or bring soup when you’re sick. if you’re worried, just bring it up — not with a screenshot of your compatibility score, but like ‘hey, sometimes we both dig our heels in, how do we handle it better?’ that kind of convo builds way more than a zodiac sign

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