Boundary setting
I'm having a tough time with my wife, every time I try to set a boundary she starts crying and I end up apologizing, it's like I'm walking on eggshells around her, I want to give her the freedom she wants but my family log is always on my case about maintaining izzat, By the grace of Allah we've been married for 5 years and I love her dearly but this is taking a toll on me, I feel like I'm losing myself in the process of trying to keep her happy, when I try to talk to her about it she just says I'm being too restrictive and that I don't trust her, and then I'm stuck in this cycle of feeling guilty and apologizing even though I know I'm just trying to do what's right, I don't know how to make her understand that I'm coming from a good place, I feel like I'm failing her and my family and it's all just really overwhelming, I just wish she could see things from my perspective, I guess what I'm trying to say is that I'm struggling to find a balance between being a good husband and being a good son, and it's really hard for me to deal with the emotional fallout every time we have one of these conversations, I'm at my wit's end and I don't know what to do anymore