Can a marriage survive with low kundli matching score?

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So me and my partner have been together for 3 years and we’re thinking about getting married next year. He’s 5 years older, which his family wasn’t thrilled about at first but they’re warming up. The problem is his mom got our kundli matched and the score was 14/36. She completely lost it. Said it’s doomed, that we’ll fight all the time or worse. Now my future in-laws are pressuring him to call it off. Honestly I always kind of believed in astrology but not THAT much you know

We’re really in love and talk about everything. He wants to go ahead but I can’t ignore how upset his mom is. Idk if I’m overthinking but sometimes I wonder… what if there’s truth to it? Like what if we end up hating each other later because of doshas or whatever. But then again we’ve already handled long distance, career stress, even a breakup once (just for a month lol). We always find our way back

Can a marriage actually survive with a low gun score or is it just setting yourself up for pain? I don’t want doubts to ruin something real but also don’t want to ignore big red flags

Carlos Rivera · Answer

My cousin had the same thing happen 8 years ago. Their kundli score was 12 out of 36 and his mom threw a fit said they’d never last. Fast forward they’re still married got two kids and honestly seem happier than most couples I know. Astrology can be meaningful but it doesnt write your story. You and your partner do.

I was skeptical too at first thought maybe theres something I dont see but then I watched them choose each other every day. Its not about the stars lining up its about showing up. Communication patience how you handle fights thats what builds a marriage not a number.

Talk to your guy about how you’re feeling. Then together have a calm chat with his mom. Dont argue just thank her for caring and say you two are committed to making it work. Boundaries matter. Ive seen too many couples stress over this only to realize they were strong all along…

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