can astrology explain why i still resent my partner?

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so my husband cheated 3 years ago. we have two kids under 10 and i stayed because splitting up felt impossible with school and soccer practices and just everything honestly. at first i thought i could get over it but now i just feel this low buzz of anger all the time. i see him make coffee for me and instead of feeling sweet i think about her making it for him. is that normal? or am i just broken. i read our synastry chart once and it said we have strong emotional ties but also a lot of hidden tension. moon in scorpio square his venus or whatever. i don’t know if i believe that stuff but sometimes it feels like the stars set us up to crash. like we were never meant to last but the kids keep us glued together. i still want to want him but instead i just want to scream. random thing — we matched 78% on that astrology app and i showed him and he said “good enough” and went back to his video game. good enough. yeah right

Chloe Bennett · Answer

I get the coffee thing — literally last week I saw my partner set out my favorite mug and instead of feeling touched, I remembered finding the text. Like, why does kindness now feel like guilt?

I stayed too — kids, bills, the whole mess. And for months I thought if I just waited, the resentment would fade. It didn’t. What changed was when I stopped blaming the astrology charts — ours said "fated soulmates" btw — and started telling a therapist the ugly truth: I’m stuck, I’m mad, and I don’t know if I want to leave or learn to stay differently.

Try writing down one thing a day you’re actually angry about — not the cheating, but what it broke. I did that. Showed it to my therapist after three weeks. She didn’t fix it — but we finally had real ground to work on.

You’re not broken. You’re just carrying something heavy and pretending it’s light.

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