Changed after marriage?

I remember sitting on my bathroom floor last year crying just like you're describing. My husband changed after we got married too — went from texting me all day to barely looking up from his phone. What helped was when I finally said something not during a fight but on a quiet morning with coffee. I told him exactly how I felt instead of waiting for him to guess. Try setting a time to talk when you're both calm not when emotions are high. Ask him if something's going on and really listen — sometimes guys pull away cause they feel pressure and dont know how to say it. I also started doing one small thing for myself every week — a walk or coffee with a friend — it helped me stop feeling so stuck. It's not all on you to fix but you can start a conversation. And don't let anyone tell you to just adjust when you're hurting. My mom said the same thing but turns out my husband was stressed about money and never told me. We're doing better now it took a few honest talks and therapy but we got there