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I've been dating this girl for a few months now and she's really lovely, my family loves her too, but there's this one thing that's been bothering me, she checks up on me every hour when I'm out with friends, just texting to see where I am and who I'm with, and when I asked her about it she said it's just because she cares and is worried about me, but I'm not so sure, I feel like it's a bit much, I know my mates think it's weird too, we were all out at the pub the other night and she kept ringing me, I had to turn my phone off in the end, I don't want to upset her but at the same time I need some space, I'm starting to feel like I'm losing my own identity in the relationship, and that's scary, i mean i love her and all but, I don't know if this is just me being paranoid or if it's actually a problem, does anyone else have to deal with this kind of thing, it's really got me questioning everything, my mum just wants me to be happy but even she thinks it's a bit strange, so yeah, just looking for some advice really, Lowering my expectations isn't really an option, I want to make this work but not at the cost of my own sanity, so any help would be great

Lucie Dupont · Answer

so ive been in a similar situation before and tbh it didnt end well, my ex was super clingy and would call me like 10 times a day, i thought it was cute at first but it got really overwhelming, what i did was sit down with her and explain how i felt, told her i appreciate the concern but i need some space, didnt really work out but i think its worth a shot with your girl, just be honest with her and see how she reacts

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