Dealing with jealousy?

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So I've been dating my boyfriend for like 6 months now and things are getting serious. We're talking about moving in together and all that. But lately, I've been feeling super jealous when he talks to other girls. Like, I know it's irrational, but I just can't help it. He's always been really flirty, even with our friends, and it makes me feel so insecure. One time, we were out with friends and he was laughing with this girl, touching her arm and stuff... just felt like I was gonna lose it. Haha, I know it sounds crazy, but it's hard not to feel that way. We've talked about it and he says he loves me and would never cheat, but idk, it's still hard for me to shake off these feelings. Green flags are that he's always honest with me and we communicate pretty well, but I need help handling these jealousy issues before they ruin our relationship

Nadia Petrova · Answer

so i've been there too, jealousy sucks. my ex was super flirty with everyone & it drove me crazy. what helped me was talking to him about it, like actually telling him how i felt. he had no idea i was feeling that way. we set some boundaries together, like not texting other people late at night. just being open with each other made a huge difference. try to communicate with your boyfriend, see if you guys can figure something out that works for both of you. being honest is key, dont let the jealousy eat away at you

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