Found flirty texts on my partner's phone?
So I was borrowing my partner’s phone last night to text my sister, and their messages with a coworker popped up. I didn’t mean to snoop, but one said, 'I can’t stop thinking about you… last Friday was fun ;)'. Then another: 'You’re trouble… and I’m into it'. Like… wtf? We’ve been together 8 months and I thought things were going well. They stay late at work “finishing up,” and now I’m wondering if that’s all it was. I showed them the messages and they said it was just banter, that this person flirts with everyone, and I’m overreacting. Tbh, I don’t know if I want to believe that. We’re not officially “exclusive” or whatever, but we’ve acted like we’re a couple—meet their friends, sleep over every weekend, even talked about moving in. Ngl, it hurts. I keep replaying every little thing, like how they text back fast when that person messages but take hours with me sometimes. Do I have a right to be upset? Or am I blowing this out of proportion because we never put a label on it? Idk, just feels messy.