He blames me for things I didn’t do
Last night, my boyfriend got mad because he thought I read his messages without permission. I didn’t even touch his phone. When I tried to explain, he said I’m always defensive and too sensitive. It’s not the first time. Last week, he accused me of ignoring his calls when I was actually at my father’s house dealing with… family stuff. I didn’t want to argue so I just stayed quiet, but it is not good. I feel like I’m walking on eggshells. If I react, I’m overreacting. If I stay quiet, I’m cold. My parents never approved of us, and now sometimes I wonder if they were right, not because of who he is but… the situation has become difficult. I don’t know if this is something that can change or if I’m just making excuses for him. I keep thinking maybe I’m the problem, but then why does it hurt so much to talk to him? I just…