He blames me for things I didn’t do, what now?
So we’ve been doing long distance for 8 months, him in London for work, me in Singapore. Last week, he accused me of not replying to his text fast enough — but I literally replied within an hour, after work. He said I was ‘testing’ him and that I don’t care. When I tried to explain, he told me I’m too sensitive and overreacting. This isn’t the first time. Two weeks ago, he said I was flirting with my coworker just because I liked his meme on WhatsApp. I didn’t even say anything back! When I get upset, he shuts down or says I’m dramatic. Grandma keeps asking when we’re getting married, even planned a thing with the matchmaker already — she keeps saying, 'Girl, at your age, can’t wait liddat.' But how do I marry someone who twists things and then says *I’m* the problem? I keep quiet because I don’t want to make it worse, but it’s draining me leh. Feels like I’m walking on eggshells all the time sia.