He earns less and his parents say I should be grateful?
We’ve been together two years, living together since last winter. I make more, not bragging but just fact — my job in Xian pays well, his is unstable. His parents visit every month, always same conversation. 'You lucky he chose you, not many men want career woman.' 'He still took you despite your demands.' My husband, he never says anything, just drinks tea and looks at floor. Makes me feel small, like I’m too much. I love him but why do they talk like I’m burden? Like he’s doing me favor? Last week his mom said 'maybe you adjust expectations, girl like you hard to place.' I didn’t sleep that night. Am I wrong for feeling hurt? Should I accept this as part of marrying into family? Sometimes I wonder if he feels same way deep down. Don’t know how to bring it up without fight.