He ghosted me after we slept together?
So we’ve been dating off and on for like 4 months. Nothing super serious but we always flirted a lot and said we were into each other. Last weekend we ended up sleeping together — it wasn’t a one-night stand, we stayed over at my place, woke up together had coffee. Felt kinda meaningful you know? But now he hasn’t texted in 3 days. I said something light like “coffee this week?” and he just said “maybe” — that was 2 days ago. Nothing since. We talked about waiting to have sex until we were both ready — not for religious reasons just personal — and now it happened and he’s acting like I’m a stranger. Was it just about the sex? But why pull back so hard I don’t even know if this counts as cheating but it feels like a betrayal. We never defined things but the silence is killing me. He’s always been hot and cold — but this time it’s worse after being so close. Like what even was that night if it meant nothing? Does this happen to other people? Just feel so confused and kinda stupid for thinking it meant something
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