He says I'm his soulmate but I'm always giving in
We’ve been together 3 years and he STILL says I’m the love of his life — like, full on tells me I’m his soulmate, we’re meant to be, all that. But every single fight? I’m the one backing down. Last week we argued about his mom staying too long during visits — I was stressed, needed space, but he guilted me into letting her stay another 5 days. Said if I really loved him I’d ‘step up.’ And I did. Again. It’s always me adjusting my schedule, my mood, even my tone so he doesn’t get defensive. When I tried talking about it, he said I’m being ‘too sensitive’ and that I overthink everything. But I’m tired. I don’t feel like a partner — I feel like the person holding it all together while he stays comfortable. Is this normal? Or am I just expecting too much? He’s not abusive or mean — just... never meets me halfway. And now I’m questioning if I even know what love is supposed to feel like —