How do I stop feeling guilty about falling for my best friend?
so my husband and I have been seperated for 8 months now we agreed to take a break after years of drifting apart but we never officially filed for divorce. during that time me and my best friend jesse just started hanging out more and honestly it felt so easy being around him like we’d finish each other’s sentences and laugh at the same dumb stuff. one night after a few drinks we kissed and then it happened again and now i think i’m falling for him hard. the thing is my husband still texts me sometimes says he misses me and wants to work on things and i told him i need space but now i feel so torn. jesse doesn’t know about the texts and i haven’t told him how deep this is getting i’m scared if i tell him he’ll pull away or say i’m not over my marriage. part of me feels like i’ve already moved on but the guilt keeps me up at night like am i just replacing one attachment with another? i never meant to hurt anyone but now i’m stuck crying in my car after jesse dropped me off wondering what the hell i’m doing. i just need to know if this is real or if i’m just lonely and looking for someone to make me feel worth something again