How do we restart intimacy when it’s been months?
My husband and I have been married for six years and honestly things have been ok — work’s been crazy for both of us, we’re both in tech, always on calls or behind screens. But we haven’t been intimate in like four months? Not even close. It’s not like anyone’s mad or there’s drama, we just… drifted. I miss feeling close to him but I don’t even know how to bring it up without it sounding like criticism. Last time I tried to joke about it he got quiet and said he’s been stressed. I get it, I’m stressed too but it makes me feel invisible sometimes. We’re both Korean-American and talking about stuff like this just isn’t how we grew up. My parents never showed affection, let alone talked about sex. So now I don’t know what to do — wait it out? Bring it up again? I just want us to be close again but idk how to start lol. Feels like we’re roommates who share a bed