How much does Kundli matter if we love each other?

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My cousin sister is 33 and still unmarried. Family is making her feel like something is wrong with her, like she is a burden. Every function, every wedding, it’s the same – ‘ab kya karoge? Bas itna time ho gaya hai, koi bhi ho to theek hai na?’ She is not even allowed to speak for herself. Her parents is constantly showing her Kundli to pandits, saying there’s a dosh, that she is Manglik, that’s why matches fall through. But she met someone now – he is good, simple guy, they is feeling happy together. But family won’t even consider because his moon sign is wrong or something. She is crying every night, feels like she isn’t enough. I just want to know – if two people is loving each other and treating each other well, how much does astrology really matter? Can’t they just see her happiness? Isn’t it supposed to guide, not destroy lives? 😭

Kayla Roberts · Answer

My heart goes out to your cousin - I've seen this happen to so many women in our community, it's like they're just waiting for someone to come along & fix their life. Honestly, Kundli is just a part of our culture, but it shouldn't dictate their happiness - my aunt was also Manglik, she married a non-Manglik guy & they're still together after 20 years. Tell your cousin to follow her heart, she's 33, not 60, she has her whole life ahead of her - what matters most is that she's happy with this guy, they should just talk to his family, see if they're open to the idea, don't let her parents pressure her into something she doesn't want

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