Husband at war

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I'm losing my mind my husband went to fight a few weeks ago and I havent heard from him since I try to eat but the food just sits there I cant sleep at nite I keep thinking of all the what ifs what if he's hurt what if he's... I dont know I just feel so alone and scared I've been trying to stay strong for our kids but its getting harder every day I feel like I'm just going thru the motions I'm Nibha Nibhi and I never thought I'd be in a situation like this my self-worth is pretty much shot right now I just want to hear his voice and know he's okay

Min-jun Park · Answer

I've been in your shoes not so long ago my husband was deployed for months and I barely heard from him, it was like living in a constant state of limbo lol, I remember trying to eat and sleep but my mind was always elsewhere what if he's hurt what if he's not coming back, I had to find ways to cope so I started journaling and writing letters to him even though I wasn't sure if he'd get them, it helped me feel like I was still connected to him somehow, try doing that and also reach out to other military wives they get it, we can support each other through this

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