I keep choosing emotionally unavailable partners — how do I break the pattern?
My last 4 relationships have all followed the same pattern: I fall for someone who is charming but emotionally distant. I spend months or years trying to "earn" their love and affection. When they finally open up? I lose interest. When they are distant? I am obsessed. I know exactly what I am doing and I still cannot stop. How do you rewire this?