Is he cheating when he's drunk every night?
So my husband has been drinking every single night lately, like a bottle of whiskey almost. And it’s not just that he’s drunk—it’s that he turns into this person I don’t even know. Joking about weird stuff, flirty texts popping up on his phone when he passes out… I found a message from some girl saying “miss you” and he replied “you know where to find me 😉” the other day. I tried bringing it up and he just laughed it off like I’m being paranoid. We’re supposed to be planning our engagement soon—his mom even brought up the Kundli match and how “perfect” we are, blah blah. But how can that matter if he’s out here changing when he drinks? Is this just stress? Or is the alcohol giving him permission to be how he really feels… or worse, hiding something? Last week he said something about “what happens when you drink stays in the moment” like it meant more than just spilled secrets. And sometimes I wonder if he’s already crossed a line when he’s like that. Nibha Nibhi told me not to ignore red flags but I don’t even know what the f*ck is real anymore Am I overreacting or is this a sign he’s already cheating…?
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