Moved for him and now he's backing out?
so i packed up my whole life in ohio. left my apartment sublet my place drove 14 hours to austin for this guy. we’d been dating long distance for like 8 months and he kept saying i’m the one blah blah. when i got here he was sweet at first but then started pulling away. now he says he’s not ready for commitment and needs space. i mean what the hell. i sold my car to afford this move and was counting on staying with him while i looked for work. ngl i feel so used. we were sleeping together every night at first and now he barely texts. i don’t even know where we stand are we broken up? are we on hold? he says he cares but won’t define anything. i’m stuck here with no job no friends and barely any money. should i just cut it off and go back home or try to make it work. i just need someone to tell me if this is normal or if i’m being naive idk how to even start over
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