My fiancé’s family wants matching stars, I don’t believe
So my fiancé and I have been together for 4 years we finally set a wedding date last month and now his parents are saying we can’t get married unless our nakshatras match? Like full on sent me a list of “compatible” constellations or whatever and want us to consult some astrologer in their hometown. I tried being polite at first but honestly it’s starting to feel like they’re questioning our love or like I’m not good enough if the stars don’t align. I told my fiancé I don’t believe in any of this stuff and he said he doesn’t either but he’s scared of hurting his parents feelings. They’re already kinda distant with me anyway you know the whole “she’s not from our village type vibe” and now this feels like another barrier. I get that traditions matter but come on? Should I just go through with the astrology check to keep peace or do I stand my ground? And what if the stars don’t match what then am I just uninvited from my own wedding? I’m so frustrated I love him but I don’t want to start our marriage by pretending I believe in something I don’t. Plus his mom said something about “bad luck” if we ignore this it’s making me anxious