Partner still talking to ex secretly?
So I found out my husband’s been messaging his ex for months. He says it’s just friendship, ‘we talk like friends only’. But why secret? Last time never like this one — I wouldn’t hide anything from him. We’ve been married two years, no kids yet, and I thought things were okay. But now I keep finding little things — deleted messages, phone locked all the time, even when he’s half-asleep on the couch. When I asked, he got very the awkward and said she’s going through a hard time. But why her? Why not me? I try not to be controlling, but it feels like he’s giving her something I’m not. My parents don’t know we married outside caste — still haven’t told them — so I can’t even talk to them. Feels like I’m stuck. Should I let this go or am I right to feel hurt? Steady lah, maybe I’m overthinking, but it doesn’t sit right.