Said no to 30 marriage profiles – am I being too picky?
So my parents have been trying to set me up forever and last month they came at me with 30 profiles like it was some kind of arranged marriage speed round I’m not even joking 30 and I said no to every single one I know that sounds insane but hear me out – like one guy had the exact same photo as someone I saw on a dating app last year & it was so obvious he was just recycling pics another lived in Dubai but wanted someone to move there immediately no visits first which no thank you and most of them just felt… empty? Like no spark nothing I keep getting called selfish because I’m holding out for someone I actually connect with but tbh I just don’t see the point if I’m gonna be stuck in a long distance situation from day one with someone I don’t even like I get that love can grow but why start with zero? my cousin met her husband on Nibha Nibhi and they actually dated long distance first so it’s not like I’m against it I just want something real not a checklist of degrees and salaries I keep thinking maybe I’m expecting too much but also is it wrong to want to actually *like* the person?
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