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I'm really struggling isn't it, my wife and I haven't been getting along for a long long time and now she's barely talking to me. My family back home is expecting me to send money every month, but I'm barely managing my own expenses, very very difficult for me to make ends meet. I told my wife about this, she just says I should manage only. I feel like I'm being pulled in two directions, my family's expectations and my own responsibilities. I don't know what to do, it's a big big problem for me. I feel so alone in this, isn't it?

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Hemant Pandey

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  • I've been in a similar situation myself, my family back home was counting on me to send money every month but my wife and I were barely getting by,...

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    Samuel Osei

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    10 days ago

    I've been in a similar situation myself, my family back home was counting on me to send money every month but my wife and I were barely getting by, we had to make some tough decisions, like creating a budget together and prioritizing our expenses, I told my wife we need to sit down and go over our finances, see where we can cut back, and then figure out how much we can realistically send to my family, it wasn't easy but we managed to find a balance, maybe you can try doing the same thing, have an open and honest conversation with your wife about your finances and see what you can work out together

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