She said she loved me then shut down overnight
We were doing okay, actually. Like, not perfect, but we’d been together 8 months and she told me she loved me out of nowhere one night after dinner. I’m already 28 so when she said it, I let myself believe things could get serious. We even talked about introducing her to my parents soon. Then, literally the next week, she stopped texting first, wouldn’t meet up, and when I asked if everything was okay, she just said ‘I need space’ like it’s nothing. I think our situation is crazy-making. One minute she’s all in, next I’m being treated like a stranger. I don’t even know if it’s me or something at work or — is it astrology? We’re both Virgos, maybe too much friction? Or did I mess up by assuming she meant it seriously? In Korea, people don’t say ‘I love you’ lightly, right? So if she said it, I thought it meant something real. Now I’m just stuck waiting and overthinking everything. 🤦♂️