Should I leave my boyfriend because of religion?

my sister dated a muslim guy for three years and her parents lost it too. same kundli talk, ancestors, the whole drama. honestly it took time but she sat them down with him and made them talk. not argue, just talk. he made tea for them, called them uncle aunty, asked about their jobs, was respectful as hell. took months but they started warming up. i get that it feels like you’re being torn in half. but this isn’t just about religion or stars matching. it’s about who makes you feel safe, who shows up. your boyfriend sounds lowkey better than most couples i know—including some in arranged matches. if you’re thinking of leaving because of pressure, don’t. not yet. try bringing him to dinner. casually. not a big “accept him” moment, just let them see he’s not a threat. and talk to your parents when no one’s crying. say you’re not choosing anyone over them. you’re just loving someone who treats you well. my sister’s parents still joke about the kundli thing. but they invited him to diwali last year. people adapt. sometimes they just need to see it