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I've been dating this girl for a few months now, and everything was going great. We'd meet up every week, talk on the phone every night, and she even introduced me to her family. But then out of nowhere, she told me she loved me, and the next day she just became super cold towards me, lor. I dunno what I did wrong, I thought we were on the same page. We didn't even have a fight or anything, it just feels like she's pushing me away now. Her family's really traditional, and my mom's been saying our Zodiac signs aren't compatible, but I didn't think that would affect her like this. Steady lah, I thought our love was stronger than that. Now I'm just feeling really lost and confused, and I don't know how to talk to her about it, meh.

Sana Mirza · Answer

See, when a girl from a traditional family says she loves you, it's a big deal, her family might be breathing down her neck. By the grace of Allah, I've seen this before, my cousin went thru something similar. We are stuck between two worlds, where our hearts want one thing but our families expect another. Talk to her, ask her whats going on, maybe she's feeling the pressure too. Be patient and respectful, don't push her to talk if she's not ready

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