Why’d he put the house in his mom’s name?
so we’ve been married for 3 years and saving forever for our first home we had a number set aside together i even sold my car to add more to the pot last month he said we got approved i was so excited i started looking at paint colors and stuff then i see the documents by accident — the house is under his mom’s name only. not joint, not ours, just hers. i asked him and he said it was for “tax reasons” and “easier that way” but his mom doesn’t even live here she’s in another state. i feel like i got sucker punched i gave up so much for this and now it’s not even mine. we had a huge fight i cried he got defensive said i don’t trust him but wouldn’t give a straight answer about why not us. we were supposed to close the deal on our wedding anniversary too which made it feel even more messed up. i love him but right now i don’t feel like a partner just like someone along for the ride. is this normal? am i overreacting? we’ve talked about therapy before but he says it’s not that deep. but to me it is